Everyday isn’t always a good day between two people. The two of you may not always see eye to eye. It may even get to the point where issues and conflicts become frequent visitors in your relationship. These communication isues shouldn’t really make much a difference right? After all, they are your most cherished confidant right?
Well, what do you do when your most cherished confidant goes and compromise your trust? This often occurs as a result of anger or some emotional based revenge. The very same secrets you shared with them are now being thrown back at you to hurt you. The very same insecurities that you divulged are now being used against you. What do you do when you are constantly being undermined by this person you love? What do you do when they use words to emotionally hurt or manipulate you because they know just exactly how to do it?
Do you:
a) Try your best to work it out by figuring out the emotional root of the constant betrayal and decide to forgive and forget.
b) Do you give them a spoonful of their own emotionally fatal medicine?
c) Do you acknowledge this as emotional abuse and decide to cut your losses and let go of the emotional roller coaster?
I would love to hear your answer and see how you would handle things……..
